INDIAN WOMEN v3.0

    As always there was a problem with my mobile which I had bought a few days back. Called up the toll free number, a woman pick up nothing much worked out via the phone so I had to stop by the service center. At the reception desk again there was a woman. Yes of coarse why would not a woman be at the reception I thought for myself, but I did find a small sindoor on a forehead. In a country where women are always outnumbered by men how is that I find women everywhere. She really was good at what she was going, handing more than 3 phones.  Beautiful, sexy and smart all in one. I don’t think you could think of any other women with all these combinations, of course she was Indian. Unfortunately married, this is not the first time that I find this happening. Whenever we find the right, it’s always taken. 

   
Indian women have evolved with time, but the evolution is so fast that everything around them seems slow. v1.0- these were the kind of  who were even refused the right to speak. They lived their life that would be nothing what we could imagine. Their bounties where limited to kitchen. Comfort and luxury were the words that did not find places in their dictionary. The reason why, one because they were never taught to use the dictionary; two, their life was done just satisfying their family. To make it seem simple, she would be the one who would a sport a fake smile hiding the tears rolling from her eyes. Even she wouldn’t know that she had such a beautiful smile. This lead to the unfolding of the next breed.v2.0 who wanted to do things that the predecessors couldn’t.

  
   v2.0- we all know her. She is just behind you. Right now she might be yelling at you to stop reading this page and get something to eat. Can you see her now? She studied hard, she works harder, she juggles stuff at her best. But you could never call her a clown. She always likes to learn with you to make sure that you would feel happy, when you bring your friends back home. Most boys love her better, hoping some day they would meet someone like her. It’s just a fantasy after all, which ruins his afterlife*. (*life after his mom)

The sindoor in her forehead, the bright eyes, the smile which cheers anyone in the vicinity. I don’t know what more to put into words here, I literally run out of vocabulary now. (I just now called my mom again to take a look at her to see if I could get a few more words, in vain but still I could write more , just seeing her.)Realizing the truth that the world in filled with other kinds of women, I just wandered about to catch up with the v3.0 Indian women.

    v3.0- she is no longer a myth. Of course she is out there. Many of you would just see her passing by, and you wouldn’t have noticed. Wondering how would she look like? That is a really hard question to answer. She just fits into everything. From a pair of shorts to kanchipuram silk saree everything looks good on her. The sexy, sassy, smart combo that even McDonald’s fail to offer. Gold is just a metal, and speed is the new sexy. The adrenaline gust is the new fun. Romance, virginity is no longer a taboo to her. Most of us are used to, seeing a sexy model beside a super car. But the women I am talking about would be the one driving it. Unfortunately, she is always amidst controversies. The reason why this happens. Women are getting updated faster than their counterparts. Men fall back and eventually tend to blame them. The issue is really serious when it comes to marriage. It’s like parents try to bring up a girl like Microsoft makes windows 7. But the point when the boy meets girl is when the software is installed into hardware. Most of the time it’s not compatible,(that’s when people tag “it’s complicated”) or the hardware needs a upgrade. With pc its just a matter of money. When it comes to life it’s a different ball game. Life, love are not two different things. When you see both is a single person you tend to fall for her.

  Women are always a very important part any man’s life. your mother , sister , granny , aunty,  your love and of coarse your friend . I bet there is one of them who makes a difference in your life. No matter what category she falls into, there is something special about her . Love them for who they are. Otherwise things would change. There is no wonder women, every women is THE WOMEN*(*conditions apply).

WHAT'S LOVE & WHAT'S NOT

To start of writing this I just tried googling “what is love” the wiki link said “Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment. Love is also a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection; and "the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another” people is love might accept this, and people out of love might not. Love to me is more than what a combination of 26 alphabets can define it.

Love and electricity has something is common. It’s around you ; you might not care about it at all, but when it’s not there you feel the pain , and it’s real hard to live without it. The word as such is marketed well so that people don’t understand what it really means. Love for most of us just reminds of valentine’s day, and that is the extent that the external factors have influenced it.
 

RELATIONSHIP STATUS –

With the rising popularity of facebook and the number of people using it , the relationship status update has become a huge issue.  We all must have seen a 11year old guy or a girl updating from “single “to in a relationship” and then goes 100’s of comments and “like”. The fact is it’s a crush with mutual consent. If both people agree that they like each other do not make it love in any way.  And another scenario is a “single” person is regarded looser in many people’s dictionary. Sometime the person himself feels so. Twitter is also no far behind when it comes to relationship quiries. #whatmenwant was one of the trending topics that I tries to track, and my initial statement about girls not thinking about relationship was proved wrong in here. But a small change here was, most girls here were dumped, back being single or caught their BF’s caught cheating. The tweets were more of the same “why do men always need photo’s of girls who they meets online” and various other stuff that guys generally don’t care about. More than the question some of the replies were remarkable. One it goes “we can’t see your brains so we ask for a pic”. Remarkable isn’t it.

MORE MONEY MORE HONEY-

The changing economy of a country too has to do something to this. With more money pouring into pretty young people’s pockets they try to spend it in all way they could. Time passes, they get bored. People get noticed with the expensive things hanging around them. Usually this is mistaken for crush which eventually unfolds to love and breakup. And these are the kind of people think “more money more honey”. Money could be a criteria some get to meet some great people but they only holding as a single criteria would be a point of great debate always. A true friend will never look into your pockets before looking at you which some would realize. So winning over love with money would be a handy plan, which is not worth it.  But I don’t blame guys for this want to know why, just ask the girl beside you what would she be looking in a guy. she would think for a minute , or even she might not and she would go , “ handsome , god job ( basically with enough money to buy her whatever she points to) then you hear is BLA BLA BLA…… ” so next time girls when you see a guy showing off his branded stuff don’t get annoyed someone among you have changed him so.


Everyone likes being loved, and that is an indisputable fact. It feels good, when you live around such kind of people. It’s not about who it is , and how one is related to you. Some call it “liking” which is a pretty much a safe word to coin when your are among your friends who keep picking on you with some girl’s or boy’s name. Pretty much by now you would be realizing that the article is titled “what’s love and what’s not”, franking no one knows the answer for what love is. But the later question has millions of answers. Yes, don’t you know what love isn’t? It’s not materialistic. It’s more that what anyone could explain with the combination of 26 English alphabets, it’s just much more than that. God has sent us to  do something in this world, but one sure thing that we wants everyone to do is to be loving and be loved in every way we could. So what would your answer be for the people who hate you, that’s your take. After all you could decide your life better than anyone could. No one knows your life better than you did.